There are layers to understanding the dynamic by which we can be socially controlled. The constant imagining and pleasing by which idols and people of power in our ideals are watching us— is one of them. One who wears a mask and masquerades it as their personality is in such control of this negative social dynamic. The story goes on and each person the individual wants attention from is lined up watching them and responding to them, exactly how they want them to respond. They create a self prophesising story in order for that person to feel valid and ‘good’ or for whatever reason they have chosen those specific people for.
However, this is significant as a spiritual practice towards ones evolution. Because as soon as one can pinpoint the REASON they have chosen that person— if it is someone spiritually acclaimed and empowered in liberation of expression— then that person is likely to seek validation from them because a part of them simply wants to feel the same way. The desire for such approval from a liberated yet wise person is the desire for ones own soul to exemplify such behaviours and be accepted at that. Or it could more simply be that the individual wants to feel truly accepted by those in society they feel ‘get it’. There are many layers and possibilities hence the importance for the individual to dive within themselves and ask these questions:
- What would this person give me?
- What am I seeking from this person?
- How would this person make me feel?
- Is it to seek validation, to prove something about how I really want the world, life, the universe, or others, to be? (BIG ONE— PAY ATTENTION TO THIS ONE DEARLY). - Or is it more specific, am I looking up to this person because I admire and wish to express myself in the same type of way (liberated, free to express, free flow of masculine energy, free flow of feminine energy, strong masculine/feminine) this is about what is deeply RESONATING.
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